I keep wondering wat should go in today s entry. But wonders of wonders... I don get a thing. So.. am going to discuss a serious issue which might have no relevance to u all. But still here I go....
When a girl becomes 18, everyone in her family goes on fretting.. “oh! She s come of age. I should give her off in marriage soon.”. I just don understand the logic. Why should she not live independently? Doesn’t she have a life of her own? Shouldn’t she actually try to live life in her own terms? Shoulnt she test her knowledge and earn her own living? Every girl cannot be dependent on a guy for her future na. I pity those poor girls who have to undergo this torture. First of all, she has to face her parents who will bombard with questions like
“Do u like tat john who keeps talking over the phone?” or
“Listen. I don want u to go out with ur guy friends. No one wil marry u if u roam about like this. Got it?”
“why do u stay awake like this late in night? Are u in love?” or something even like this.. “ anirudh.. ur Attai Paiyyan or mama paiyyan, would u like to marry him?”
how can a girl answer all these sorts of questions? She is not even given a chance to choose her hubby. Why should u marry? First of all, u will have to face the same old faces everyday(lol:p). Ok. If some problems crop up between u and ur hubby, u cant go and cry to ur parents cause they wil be awkward to talk to their in laws cause it wil sometimes affect thir relationship too. or there is always this chance of them feeling bad tat they have pushed u into a deep pit.Then, u wil get bored seeing the same old person everyday ..i mean.. got my point right? u cant be seeing him day and night, nursing him like a baby. then.. Imagine he is a well organized person and ur shelf... is a place from even an elephant could come out without any problem.. I mean to say tat u wont even realize tat it has made ur shelf his abode... then.. can u even expect ur life to be in one piece? Then again... if u fail to please ur mother in law... she will go on and on and on about how careless u were and wat ur parents had thought u, now with full rights tat u r her bali ka bakra. So.. jus think. Do u want to make a big blunder? As far as I am considered... it s total waste of LIFE.
If you would ask me... it s better to go on with ur life as it is. If at all ur parents force you to marry... tell them that u wil go on with ur life and if any person is willing to thaalikattify... he should let u be as u r. or else... it s better to remain as a spinster. After all it is ur life and marriage has no right to change it. Right?
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